tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post1570642641631519780..comments2023-10-24T05:29:10.373-04:00Comments on Extra Dressing on. the. Side: Heart to HeartElahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14467087758859804644noreply@blogger.comBlogger39125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-49934749923105271312010-09-14T19:42:46.334-04:002010-09-14T19:42:46.334-04:00i'll pray for you two! : ) may more blessings ...i'll pray for you two! : ) may more blessings come your way soon...sssdawnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09511468349016162150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-69013118898523587392010-06-23T15:11:30.394-04:002010-06-23T15:11:30.394-04:00hey babe, sorry for being THIS late... been mia fo...hey babe, sorry for being THIS late... been mia for a while...<br /><br />I hope you feel better now, because I know you'll be just fine, you and S and all of your children! You'll be a great mommy!<br /><br />xoToothfairyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04636075918405464271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-74442535418423555482010-05-06T13:01:20.606-04:002010-05-06T13:01:20.606-04:00aw hun, i love you. im praying for you and i will ...aw hun, i love you. im praying for you and i will always be here even tho you have a great husband with you through all of this. you would make hands down the most wonderful mommy i could ever ever know. lucky little babies to have you as a mama. love you hun.nicole mountzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01776049759431095742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-49629188762943684822010-04-29T17:11:21.160-04:002010-04-29T17:11:21.160-04:00Hi Ela, I'm delurking to express my gratitude ...Hi Ela, I'm delurking to express my gratitude for your post. I understand your pain as I am going through the same issue in my life right now. I am sure it will work out for us both very soon. xJoannanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-53717681551298930072010-04-29T03:09:14.996-04:002010-04-29T03:09:14.996-04:00I've been a bad blog friend and just read this...I've been a bad blog friend and just read this post. Ela, I hope you get everything you want and soon. Sending you love and positivity. xoGabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12073382283843185345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-57503938981950058702010-04-18T00:22:20.143-04:002010-04-18T00:22:20.143-04:00Hi Ela, it's been a while, sorry about that. I...Hi Ela, it's been a while, sorry about that. I've had an extended break from blogging and reading but I'm trying to catch up now so only just read this post. And it made me cry.<br /><br />I know how much you want to be a mum, so I know that it will happen for you. One way or another you and S will have your bebe. And until then, you and S will continue to support and love each other and be a family. Kisses and hugs from NZ. xoMs Constantinehttp://cupcakesandmace.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-17189142165917841872010-04-08T05:49:37.370-04:002010-04-08T05:49:37.370-04:00*Big hugs**Big hugs*Chickie Littlehttp://www.eggshellgreen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-11724471368098927972010-04-05T02:05:37.839-04:002010-04-05T02:05:37.839-04:00I'm sorry for being MIA lately. I feel like a ...I'm sorry for being MIA lately. I feel like a terrible friend. I have just been horrible at commenting lately b/c of limited internet access...<br /><br />That being said, this post really tugged at my heart. I don't know if I ever want children, so I can't relate to you, but I know what it's like to watch someone else struggle through something kind of similar.<br /><br />My mom suffered five miscarriages before she had me and then suffered nine more after me. I was pretty much a miracle baby in the midst of 14 miscarriages. But growing up, it broke my heart to see her try for another child, only to end up losing one after another. What made it hurt for her even worse was watching her own sisters pop out kid after kid, year after year, effortlessly. Without even trying. They all have four/five children now. They all have the big families my mom longed to have since she was a young woman.<br /><br />She's grateful to have me, of course, but I know the sadness she has felt for so many years.<br /><br />It makes me so sad to think a friend of mine is facing a similar (yet different) dilemma.<br /><br />You are such a sweet, gentle, and gorgeous woman. You were BORN to be a mother. I can't imagine you without children. So I know it's in your future. It's just the road to get there which will be a little tricky.<br /><br />Good luck and lots of love to you and S during this difficult journey! xoxoJennifer Fabuloushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07521908385026885699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-1774988559553750912010-04-04T23:11:19.857-04:002010-04-04T23:11:19.857-04:00I just recently got my first ever blog award. I do...I just recently got my first ever blog award. I don't typically do this sort of thing, but I thought it was appropriate to give one to some of my favorite bloggers, and you're one of them! Check out my Easter blog post to see the new award. :)Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07813478030682306062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-25750077037140857692010-04-04T04:43:29.018-04:002010-04-04T04:43:29.018-04:00Ela. My heart goes out to you and S. You are so ...Ela. My heart goes out to you and S. You are so brave to be going through everything you've gone through. Life is definitey a journey of unexpected twists and turns... and I'm a firm believer that the ride is worth it.. it worth what we are given in the end.. kids will come for you. Even if they aren't your "own", they are out there. I'll keep you and S in my prayers and thoughts. Thank you for sharing such a personal part of your life with us. You are a beautiful woman and God has great things in store for you. I'm sure of it. Love you girl!! Hope you have a great Easter. :)<br /><br />xx Love & AlohaSharon Leihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10922508660980047476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-48653009544468883832010-04-03T13:19:03.477-04:002010-04-03T13:19:03.477-04:00Ela
Thank you so much for your comment on my blog...Ela <br />Thank you so much for your comment on my blog, sweetie! I often get compliments about my eyes ;) And maybe you're right about the wrinkles. Have a lovely weekend too! <br />Just wanted to let you know that you're not alone. My prayers are with you. Sadly, I have to say that no matter how hard you try and whatever you do to distract yourself, you can't forget. You'll eventually learn to live with it and don't think about it every single day and night. We have been trying for almost seven years now and I don't think that we will be blessed with children anymore. We went to a specialist for over two years, took pills, got shots - we did everything possible - and nothing helped. The 'funny' thing is that there is no obvious reason why it doesn't happen. The past seven years were filled with medical tortures, disappointments, frustration, loss of friends (who got pregnant) and loss of happiness. I can't even remember the last time I've shed a happy tear. We didn't even tell anyone what was going on for the first four years, until I just couldn't bear it anymore. But one thing is for sure. All of this has made our relationship even stronger. <br />Sorry, I write this anonymously, but I don't want anyone to know. I think you'll know who I am.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-71631492005978421352010-04-03T03:38:59.777-04:002010-04-03T03:38:59.777-04:00Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. One of my friends is go...Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. One of my friends is going through the same thing and all I can do is to listen and give her a hug. Sending you a hug too. I can't say I know how you feel because I can't begin to imagine. But, I can be a friend and stand by you and listen when you are sad and need a ear. : )<br /><br />Love, SGAngelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12274781443181176710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-26370151940389163522010-04-01T20:26:35.694-04:002010-04-01T20:26:35.694-04:00I'm so sorry. I can only imagine how tough tha...I'm so sorry. I can only imagine how tough that kind of struggle is. At least you have a wonderful partner to get through the day with!BonBon Rose Girls Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10699626979106427874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-20368277014116768632010-04-01T08:34:18.261-04:002010-04-01T08:34:18.261-04:00Beautiful pics! Lovely post!Beautiful pics! Lovely post!Gio Goi Polo Shirtshttp://www.gio-goi.com/shop/mens/polos/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-89002704369600995582010-04-01T03:30:13.487-04:002010-04-01T03:30:13.487-04:00aw Ela :( my prayers go out to both you and S that...aw Ela :( my prayers go out to both you and S that you find everything that you are looking for. for the meantime, im so glad you have been blessed with such a wonderful husband who knows how to push you along through the rough patches and help you get over every obstacle life throws at you. in the end, i truly do believe that good people are rewarded, so keep your head high and never be afraid to reach out for support :) <br /><br /><3s lady!josie(bean)https://www.blogger.com/profile/08638016020354439701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-37398774664878580112010-03-31T22:39:43.747-04:002010-03-31T22:39:43.747-04:00I'm sorry darling Ela, I can't pretend tha...I'm sorry darling Ela, I can't pretend that I can understand how you are going through...but I must share my sister's story; she tried for so many yearsss, but now she has 3 wonderful children! Continue to seek God's strength & joy. Hope for the best & find the best professionals to help this dream to come true~<br />HUGs & much blessings!LenoreNeverM♡rehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964343661261469513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-12876233916341730442010-03-31T22:21:46.348-04:002010-03-31T22:21:46.348-04:00Aw, I'm sorry you're having this struggle....Aw, I'm sorry you're having this struggle. I know that one day you'll end up with a beautiful child.Crazy Shenanigans-JMOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03494603714481735184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-27677681912664940812010-03-31T20:43:11.036-04:002010-03-31T20:43:11.036-04:00I know this is such a tough struggle for you- this...I know this is such a tough struggle for you- this honest post must've felt good to get it all out there. It's so great that you and S are so strong and can do this together. Whatever may be, you are right- there are children out there, that are all yours... just waiting for you!<br /><br />xo :)Jaime @ laviejaimehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14769468349542761649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-63657640891415050692010-03-31T20:08:35.601-04:002010-03-31T20:08:35.601-04:00oh bub, my heart goes out to you. and yes, you alr...oh bub, my heart goes out to you. and yes, you already are a family. and one day, it will have an extra person in it, but for now, maybe not. xxxDeath Wears Diamond Jewelleryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08275344623879419065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-68668743958531820462010-03-31T19:19:39.003-04:002010-03-31T19:19:39.003-04:00Ela, you and S are not alone. The hubz and I wante...Ela, you and S are not alone. The hubz and I wanted to have one too. We thought we had it last January but it was ¨gone too soon¨. They say it´ll come on it´s own time. Good luck to us and in the meantime, let´s just relax and enjoy life one day at a time. ;)Cherylhttp://cereza72.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-55570315950955469342010-03-31T18:22:55.240-04:002010-03-31T18:22:55.240-04:00What you've posted today was exactly what I ne...What you've posted today was exactly what I needed to read. It's truthful and real. It's helped me. Honest. I know you are both blessed and lucky to have one another. I really hope the best for you both!. Sending positive vibes then, for you and your husband Ela xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-85384266077627926172010-03-31T18:21:23.618-04:002010-03-31T18:21:23.618-04:00you are an inspiration to many others out there. I...you are an inspiration to many others out there. I admire your incredible strength and courage to share this with us, thank you. I pray that you and S receive the blessing of a little bundle that you so deserve. HugsEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16336848157180671585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-42483271779491474182010-03-31T16:43:42.379-04:002010-03-31T16:43:42.379-04:00key words in this post..."we already are a fa...key words in this post..."we already are a family." i know you long for something more but don't forget what you already have :)<br /><br />hugs to you and your hubs. stay strong ela my bella. xoxo.bananas.https://www.blogger.com/profile/07374187632135297641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-30383484228844282612010-03-31T15:45:46.204-04:002010-03-31T15:45:46.204-04:00My sweet E... I just adore you. I've felt it i...My sweet E... I just adore you. I've felt it in my heart that yours has been heavy. I pray for you and S and beautiful little babies for you everyday. I do believe with all of my heart that life and God have their own plans for us... which is hard when what we want and what the world has planned for us don't coincide. But please believe that your story will end just as it should. You will have everything in life you were meant to have. And you know how I feel about babies... yes, blood and genes are a good start but sometimes the most amazing babies are grown with love... <br />Patience can be tough. I want babies too... but my hurt now is being alone... and wondering if I always will be or if someone out there might love me someday as much as I'm willing to love them. But if it's meant to be... it will be. And there is so much life waiting to be lived in the meantime and I don't intend to miss it. You are too amazing to hurt this much... you are too amazing to sit back and wait for life to make your dreams come true. Keep praying, keep wishing, keep believing... keep hoping... but in the meantime, don't miss a minute of this beautiful game we call life.<br />LOVE YOU with all of my heart. I am an email away (or phone... but I probably won't answer it because of my homework right now... but my computer is ALWAYS on) if you need anything... xoxoxoxxxxKristenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02931024774808178174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2829928745404773984.post-4462622258819506922010-03-31T15:43:38.027-04:002010-03-31T15:43:38.027-04:00I'm sorry y'all have been going through th...I'm sorry y'all have been going through this. I wish I had something more unique to say, because I am sure all you are getting is apologies from people who have no driving force in the matter. <br /><br />I am glad the two of you are going to stop the hurting and just press forward and be happy with what you have. <br />If it's meant to be... <br /> <br />:)Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07813478030682306062noreply@blogger.com